The holiday season can be super stressful, which is why investing in self-care is essential. With a lot of our favorite sex tech brands joining the Cyber Monday fray with deals, there’s no excuse not to treat yourself and your partner with a new sex toy, vibrator, lube, or all three. After all, masturbation is not only healthy but it’s also one of the best ways to care for yourself.
Updated November 28: We’ve tweaked prices, added a deal from Crave, and included five deals from Lelo.
Our picks for the best Cyber Monday sex toy deals were researched and tested by our Gear team for our Best Sex Toys for Every Body guide.
Sex Toy Deals
This little vibrator is one of our all-time faves. It’s been a top pick in our Sex Tech Guide since day one, in part because it’s adorable, but mostly because it’s a powerful, comfy-to-use, good-for-all-genitals vibrator and is approachable both in its low price and its simple, straightforward design. We even wrote a whole review about it.
Suction toys are a game-changer for people with vulvas. The toys use pulses of air to simulate the sucking sensation of skillful oral sex, stimulating the small erogenous areas like the clitoris or glans of a neo or natal penis. It’s kind of amazing, and they’re usually pretty expensive so finding a good one under $100 can be tough. It’s best for gentle to moderate intensity suction, and it’s not quite as powerful as other suction toys in our experience, but it’s still a good pick.
Everyone should use lube. No matter your genitals, gender identity, sexuality, or kinks, if you’re spending time with genitals you should have lube on hand. It’ll make everything so much better. For real. Water-based lubes are your best bet for everyday use. They’re water-soluble, so they won’t stain your sheets or clothes, and they’re usually made of body-safe aloe. Great for solo or partnered use! This is one of our favorites.
Dame’s sex toys all sport a similar sleek and approachable design, and you can see that here in the Arc vibrator. Gently curved with a soft bulbous end, it’s designed to provide rumbly, diffuse stimulation to the G-spot (but with a careful partner you could use it for the P-spot as well). It might be a bit big for some people, so make sure you take a look at the dimensions and compare it to an internal toy you already have and use.
Crave’s Vesper necklace is an adorable little bullet vibrator disguised as a pendant. It’s gorgeous and well-made, but it doesn’t quite pass as just a pendant if you look too close. Definitely more discreet than any of the other toys on this list though, perfect for travel and surprisingly powerful given its size.
Sex tech maker Maude is offering a blanket 20 percent off on all orders over $75 from Friday, November 26 through Sunday, November 28. Maude makes a couple of our favorite toys that we’ve featured on our best sex tech roundup, but it also stocks a number of other goodies we’ve tested and highly recommend. The Shine water-based lube, for instance, is my personal favorite lube, and there are also a number of intimate but not overtly sexy items as well like bath salts, massage oil—even a fragrance-free hand sanitizer spray that works great for cleaning your toys.
Sila is one of our favorite toys, it’s an air pulse stimulator like the Sona but it’s a little different. The mouth is a bit larger, wider around for more diffuse stimulation, engaging more of the clitoral area. It’s also adorable, like a little snail or seashell. Perfect for travel or just keeping on the nightstand.
Lelo’s Elise 2 vibrator is a smooth, sleek beauty with a very comfy and fluid design and super-soft exterior shell of silicone. Built with Lelo’s signature style and impressive design sensibility the Elise 2 isn’t just a looker, it has powerful vibration capabilities. It has two internal motors, and produces deep, rumbly vibrations, perfect for internal or external use.
The Sona Cruise is a streamlined and sleek little air pulse stimulator designed to provide suction similar to the sensation of receiving oral sex. Sona was one of the first ones to hit the market, and the Cruise version boasts an interesting feature: It automatically increases intensity when pressed hard against the body. So you don’t have to fumble with the buttons, just lean in.
This is another one of our favorites, this one’s designed to stimulate the p-spot or prostate. It’s a bit big, so if you’re a newcomer to butt stuff you might want to build up to it. But once you’re ready, it’s an incredible p-spot vibrator. It’s shaped to perfectly rest against the p-spot, and it not only boasts powerful vibrations but it includes a motion-sensitive remote control. So you or a partner can adjust the intensity without having to fumble with buttons.
PicoBong is Lelo’s brand for sex toys designed to be beginner-friendly and usually budget-friendly. But that doesn’t mean they’re cheap. Far from it. PicoBong’s Moka Blue is a great g-spot vibrator. It’s angled to hit just the right spots, and it’s just as well-made as any of Lelo’s other toys. It’s a great choice for anyone who’s just getting into sex tech.
One of the original suction toys, the Womanizer Premium has been around a while. The name is unfortunately very gendered, but if that doesn’t bother you, it’s a solid pick for powerful suction. If the name is a sticking point, I’d recommend the Dame Aer instead.
The Poco is an adorable little vibrator with two powerful motors and a flexible body. It’s easy to bend into just the right position to hit your G-spot, or for external use in interesting positions. It’s small, discreet, and pairs with the MysteryVibe app so you can set up your own vibration patterns or give someone else control of it.
The Crescendo is the bigger sibling of the Poco. It features a similar but more flexible body and has a whopping six internal motors. Those motors can all be adjusted with the included app, giving you very granular control over your vibration intensity and rhythm. Mostly I ended up using the built-in vibration patterns because there are quite a few, and they’re all pretty good. Those motors give the Crescendo a very unique vibration profile too, it doesn’t just feel like it’s one powerful motor vibrating the whole toy but rather several smaller ones vibrating throughout the toy. This is one of our favorites and for good reason. It’s fully waterproof, so it’s a great pick for bath time.
The We-Vibe Touch is a modern take on the classic bullet vibrator. It’s soft, squishy, and has a contoured body that makes it easier to hold and maneuver. The tip is shaped to fit over just about any erogenous zone. It’s also waterproof and surprisingly quiet.
This one is another suction or air-pulse stimulator designed to simulate the sucking sensation of oral sex. The Melt is a small, discreet, and cute little toy. It’s contoured and fits well in your hand no matter the angle you’re using it from, and the open end is large enough to encircle the clitoris without touching it directly—a great choice if you or your partner are particularly sensitive. It also supports We-Vibe’s app, so you can control it remotely for some long-distance partner play.
This is a vibrator designed specifically for those of you who like rumbly, diffuse stimulation while lying on top of a vibrator. The Laya II is contoured and designed for this orientation, so it won’t poke you anywhere sensitive the way a standard vibrator might if you lie on top of it. It’s also on our best-of list.
We haven’t tried it ourselves yet, but this looks like a fun little kit for couples. It’s a boxed set of sex toys that includes a vibrator specifically designed for the penis and another vibrator designed to go around the penis but also stimulate a clitoris or neo penis. It also includes a few spicy bedroom games, a massage candle, and a cute little hair scrunchie.
This little toy is fun to use all on its own or as an accompaniment to any harness or strap. It fits right in the O-ring, and it’s great for anyone who isn’t looking for size. Small and approachable, great for all kinds of internal play.
Pulsators are another relatively new kind of toy. Shaped like traditional vibrators, they actually pulsate back and forth to simulate thrusting. It’s a new experience for many, but if you’re a fan, it’s hard to go back to standard internal vibrators. This one has a flared head to mimic the shape of a penis and features medium-to-high intensity levels.